StickyDrama and online child safety site Internet Safety Advisor (ISA) probably don’t attend Sunday morning mass at the same church.   But when it comes to Kiki Kannibal’s mother Cathy Ostrenga, great minds think alike.
For our newer readers who aren’t familiar with the fascinatingly horrible life of Kiki, a home-schooled minor who is Stickam’s highest ranked female Entertainer, click here. And here. And here and here and here and especially here.  And don’t forget photos like this one shamelessly flaunting a camel toe, presently displayed on Kiki’s Stickam profile and hosted on her Imageshack account:

Cathy Ostrenga dresses and photographs her daughter in ridiculously provocative attire, slutty for a grown woman and outright disturbing for an adolescent.  Ms. Ostrenga’s sole work experience, according to Linkedln, is president of the Kiki Kannibal Corporation, whose business activities are selling plastic diamond jewelry and t-shirts promoting anorexia.
The exploitative and unwholesome nature of the Ostrenga’s enterprise disgusted an anonymous StickyDrama reader, who found his or her way onto ISA’s web site.  Commenting a blog post ISA had written about the potential dangers of Stickam, the reader wrote that he googled Kiki and “what I found was absolutely disgusting.”  Mama Kannibal immediately pounced on both the commenter and the admin of the site, accusing them of “libel” and “cyberbullying” for daring to question her child-rearing skills.  Additionally, she was outraged that her comment would not appear until ISA approved it.
The admin was not amused, and politely told Mama Kannibal to shut the fuck up:

For our less illiterate readers, we provide the entire exchange:

StickyDrama, whom Mama Kannibal also maligned in her comments, discovered the above exchange last week.  Though the initial post was published in mid-2008, it has been commented throughout 2009 (one of StickyDrama’s comments is still awaiting approval) and, frankly, was too much of a gem not to mention here.
http://internetsafetyadvisor.squarespace.com
http://stickam.com/kikikannibal

43 COMMENTS

  1. and yeah, she also didnt mention what her daughter is doing to provoke the “cyber bullying.” being mean to other people, only talking about yourself, blocking people who say anything remotely negative about you- you get what you FUCKING pay for, asshole.
    my parents would certainly not stick up for me if I was Kiki, they would agree with the haters. why? because she has a reason to be hated

  2. I like how she failed to mention any of the claims that were made against her, most likely because she knows theyre true and wants to put the blame on someone else and not accept some criticism. Much like kiki

  3. I’ve lost all sympathy for Kiki. She knows people talk shit about her, yet she keeps posting to Stickam, Buzznet, etc. The only person she can blame here is herself. She knows what she’s getting into, considering her internet popularity, so I can’t really feel sorry for someone who plays with fire knowing that they’re going to get burned. Just a thought.

  4. ^^ And I’m not kidding. I know this because she showed me a picture a one that you guys haven’t seen from her own cell phone. She also has contact to kiki.

  5. My friend is releated to kiki kannibal she is actually her birth sister but she was given up for adoption after “mama kannibal” gave birth to her my friends age 13. (The Name of this girl will be protected)

  6. libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel libel
    LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL SWEET MAMA DUKES

  7. Sticky,
    When I wrote that post on the child safety site I didn’t have enough knowledge of stickam to make the assumptions that I did. I was naive to think that even if they were to separate under 18s and over 18s, that anything would change.
    After learning more about stickam, I don’t think there is a HUGE safety issue regarding ‘predators'(I hate that word) trying to solicit underage kids on stickam. While yes they do exist, I don’t think the would be ‘predators’see stickam as good of a ‘hunting ground’ (ugh, I realize I sound as bad as Chris Hansen, sorry) as say, yahoo chat or myspace. SOOOOO…even if stickam only allowed underage kids to talk to other underage kids, they would still be getting nekkid on cam, taking pics, etc etc…just with people there own age…which is nothing new because that seems to be the norm anyway. (Obviously I could be very wrong, just my opinions as of right now).
    So what do I think of stickydrama…honestly I’m not 100% sure. It’s an inevitable component to the whole ‘e-celeb’ deal. And people who want to be famous on the internet need to realize that. They aren’t going to be interesting to anyone if people aren’t both loving them and HATING them. However, they don’t deserve to be bullied or stalked…ie, comments like “OMFG go kill yourself”, totally extreme and unnecessary.
    I preferred stickydrama when it was journalistic blogging written by competent authors who provided some sort of sources to the info they were providing…mydrama is a load of buuulllllsheeeeeeet, use the forums.
    Phew, done.

  8. To Nylon,
    Out of curiosity, now that you’ve read all of this, what would you have said differently?
    And what are your views on this site?

  9. i know for a FACT that her parents take the pictures of her, because once in her live she was like “MOOOMMM GET THE CAMERA I WANNA DO MY SHOOT IN THE CAR” like bitching at her mom for an hour eating lollipops, then a couple days later she has the pictures of her in that car.

  10. cathy ostrenga TAKES the pictures of kiki in her fucking underwear, either that or she has her husband do it.
    also, kiki regularly talks about how fat, and ugly a lot of the people on cam in her chats are. she also makes fun of retarded people all the fucking time.
    shes a cyberbully herself.
    this entire family is retarded. kiki is beautiful, but the ugliness inside of her shines through, and helps everyone to realize how pathetic, insecure, and uneducated she really is.
    cathy ostrenga is just a fat, white-trash wannabe who tries to re-live her teenage years through her daughter.

  11. the thing i love most is how she even had that stupid advice phone line to talk about things such as cyber bullying and other problems teens go through.
    and then the fact how she was like “this isn’t a joke, so don’t make up shit or prank call this number”
    i feel sorry for the people who actually called her for fucking advice.
    ha.

  12. hey cathy ostrenga! IF YOU DON’T WANT YOUR DAUGHTER TO BE CYBER BULLIED AND HARASSED, GET HER THE FUCK OFF STICKAM!
    and put some goddamn clothes on her! YOU HAVE NOONE TO BLAME BUT YOURSELF.
    if all this “libel” and “cyber bullying” was as HUGE of an issue in their family as she makes it out to be, she would’ve made kiki stay off stickam in the first place, PERIOD.

  13. Kiki plays the victim too often about being “cyber bullied”.
    kiki needs to look in the mirror and realize that she falls under the category of “cyber bullying” from what i’ve seen in her live.

  14. As the author of the comment on the child safety site…regarding Kiki…I would just like to say that after reading all of this, perhaps I would have changed some of the things I said in my comment. However my main point remains the same.
    I am not going to address my views of stickydrama here (I don’t know why that was even brought into it…I never said I supported the site), but rather go back to my main point…Kiki Kannibal is not a good role model for 14 year old kids. Her mother is aware of the provocative photos posted on her daughters profiles/web pages. FACT. I never said that I know what she thinks or feels…it’s fairly common sense to assume that if one is aware of inappropriate photos…of a MINOR (as she herself states)…yet does nothing about removing the content…they approve of the content.
    I could barely read her comments through to the end, as she contradicts herself left and right.
    And for the record Mrs. Kannibal…if you’re reading…I would NEVER promote cyber bullying…and yes some of the things said to your daughter are as disgusting as the photos she has posted. But how can you expect people to leave nice clean innocent comments about her if she does not appear clean and innocent in her photos? It’s not only the photos though, in many of her videos she can be seen being rather cruel, which is why people are cruel to her in return.
    It’s a cycle Mrs. Kannibal and you are not doing anything to break it.
    End of story.

  15. Umm.. people who are defending her are obviously not aware of the bitch she is, shes horrible to even her fans :S get out of her ass, it wont do anything for you, she looks down on everyone pfft. shes a waste of life.

  16. LOL at this lady! she talks about keeping her daughter safe from online
    bullying and others too? she should start first by not letting her under age BRAT posing in her underwear not just on pictures BUT walking around live and videos. Who cares if she goes on line and acts stupit but for crying out loud cover your underage pathedic kid up.

  17. Anon. 11:49:
    Exactly. They aren’t posting anything that can’t be proven by just looking at kiki’s profile.
    I like how her mom just ignores the accusation of her allowing her child to dress that way, but repeatedly calls her a minor.
    If you’re daughter is a minor, you shouldn’t be letting her have pictures up in her underwear. You shouldn’t be ok with the fact that she has nudes out, and make jokes about that fact, which we have all heard in her live.
    I’m not disagreeing with the way she was raised or what not, I just feel like if she wants to fit the claims the person makes, she shouldn’t be doing things to prove the claims correct.
    Stop trying to place blame on StickyDrama and start looking at yourself.

  18. how is what they said about her a lie?? they said that she lets her daughter pose half naked and post the pics online, isn’t that true mama kannibal

  19. How can you let your daughter wear those outfits and not expect people to say anything? People don’t pick on generally nice people and there isn’t much to make fun of Kiki about because she’s not horrible looking. However, it’s her attitude that makes her ugly, and that is why people shun her.
    Whatever though, a couple of years from now, it won’t matter unless she’s still using the internet to try and become well-known.
    And obviously there isn’t anything we can do to stop Mrs.Ostrenga from practically ruining her idiot daughter and that’s okay. No one here really cares whether or not Kiki changes. I genuinely don’t give a crap about Kiki or what she says/does. I don’t think anyone cares if she becomes a crack addict or if she becomes homeless. Kiki should change to benefit herself, not us. But for the mean time, we’ll just laugh at her stupid antics and continue to see what her mom clearly doesn’t.

  20. the only reason Kiki is being ‘cyber bullied’ is because of what SHE says to provoke it, if her mother wants this to stop just get the fuck off the computer, simple as that.

  21. I say let her raise her daughter how she wants, it is none of our business and it is HER daughter. That being said, I don’t really see much harm in the way she is raising her.

  22. And if Kiki and her mom want people to stop being so mean (cry me a fucking river) they should stop treating everyone like shit.
    If you treat other people badly, they’re going to treat you badly too. That’s how it works.

  23. jeez, leave the girl alone. If u don’t like her, ignore her, not like she’s got a gun to your head telling you to watch her every move. FYI predators are everywhere, & most of them are checkin on your kids @ the mall & on beaches, not chatrooms for scene kids. Most of them abduct kids they saw irl. You know people have killed themselves because of e-bullying, so think before you speak & stop harassing ppl u heard about on the internetz. Srsly how would YOU feel if someone called you a worthless cumdumpster & told u to kill yourself? Pathetic

  24. If you don’t want people talking shit about your worthless cumdumpster of a daughter, you shouldn’t have raised her to be a worthless cumdumpster, you fucking moron.

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