When Stickam first launched, the teen-oriented site’s affiliation with (and complete financial support from) billion-dollar Japanese porn company DTI Services rang alarms for child safety advocates–like our good pal Internet Safety Advisor, who also told Mama Kannibal to shut up back in 2008.
Among the many theories flung around back in 2007 was that the Stickam (which is a service owned by a company called Advanced Video Communications, or AVC) was a “Joe Camel” for AVC’s billion-dollar-Japanese-porn-parent DTI Services, a sanitized cartoon of sorts intended to get American teenagers hooked. Hooked to an addictive form of porn: live, on-demand sex shows, a service on which DTI had already cornered the online market. What effect, it was asked, would this almost unmonitored mass access to live streaming video have on the teenagers to whom it was mostly heavily marketed?
Today, three years later, let’s talk about the case of one teenager: Dez.
Quoting the reader who emailed StickyDrama this story:
“Way back in 2007–I think I had been on Stickam for like a week? I didn’t
even know who Dez was let alone her age. I found her profile as she was one
of the only people on as late at night as I was awake. There were a shitload
of people in her room and she had a glass that she was peeing in. Literally
the Live window popped up and she said “what should I do with it guys?” and
without thinking moar than a split second I typed “Drink it lol” and she
did. So the piss drinking incident was actually my doing I guess. I had no
idea how old she was–wasnt trolling Stickam for underage chicks, I was just
bored up late as fuck at night and happened upon her Live. I didn’t like to
go into her Lives much unless she was clothed because it always seemed like
she was doing something depressing like shoving things up her ass with a
Live full of people. She had many accounts, most of which would get
banned … but she did have a LOT of accounts that would last a LONG TIME. I
mean MONTHS of regular usage–it was fucking impossible that Stickam didn’t
know what was going on. Personally, I think during the first few years–Stickam just didnt give a fuck because it was popularity and they could
blame their lack of policing on brand new policies and procedures in order
to try and curb teenage nudity/anal brush bating/piss drinking heroin
shooting teens like Dez.
Anyways, here’s some links, they’re kind of old:
[Sticky’s note: These links are naaawwwwtttyyyyy!!! Not safe for school nor work!]
http://3phonestuff.com/forums/amateur-videos/16312-dez-kasey-chase-must-see
http://www.freepornstarpix.com/2009/09/24/newcomer-kasey-chase-shes-already-legend
I just found out she had been doing porn today. I checked her deviantART
because she used to have some cool drawings and takes really cool artsy
pictures of weird shit that turns out really nice:
http://dezsezhi.deviantart.com
I found the link for her crappy little site and was like “WTF, Dez pr0n lolwut?”
http://www.clips4sale.com/store/38066
I started looking on google and seemed like she built a little name for
herself. Back on Stickam she was always talking about killing herself and
when she wasn’t talking about it she was slicing herself. A couple times
people would say they were calling the police to get her help but she’d say
that people were invading her life and it was her life to do whatever she
wanted to do. Nutso shit. A couple times after watching Dez’s Live, my head
would seriously hurt that people are this fucked up. Emotionally it was
like … fucking traumatizing sometimes. It almost seemed like she was the
sanest nutcase on Stickam. She’s a really a smart girl. Often, people who
are smart, aren’t that intelligent. Dez was/is a weird piece of Stickam
history.”
http://twitter.com/dezdispenser
http://www.myspace.com/loldez
Man, WTF!
This ruined my day. OK, she already admitted to this. I was lucky enough to meet here on her escort days. To me it’s just another fuck, but when you hang out with her. Damn, she’s a genuinely nice person. Clearly she has her demons, it’s too bad I never got the chance to meet her again. She was in jail the last time I tried to get her.
She even insisted on paying the meal after the deed. She could have used me, I was already infatuated by her at that point. But she didn’t, and that’s Dez, an angel with a tortured soul.
I wish I kept up with her posts on Facebook, the last I heard was she was in rehab almost 3 years ago.
Rest in peace
Hey look its anon from 4chan lol Happened across this because the last commenter reposted this text in /b/. Her porn name appears to be Kasey Chase? Except now she’s dead but w/e. Hope whoever finds this in the future enjoys knowing that fellow internet people care about her too, just in a more porn way amirite? RIP Desire, hope your baby does okay.
Nearly all evidence points to her having died; even her dad (or, more accurately, the person posting to FB as her dad — who may or may not be her dad) is stating that she’s dead.
However, I’ve known her — cripes, for nearly half of her life now, how messed up is that? for 44.444…% of her life; for over a decade, at any rate … point is, I’ve known her for a long time. We hadn’t been much in touch recently, aside from the odd photo comment here or there: she became a mom, she got married; I’ve been consumed by work and by family things and not feeling very social…
People were really mean to her. Incel shut-in edgelords, mostly. I thought she was nice. Mostly nice. I cried hard when I heard the news. Then when I thought I was done crying I cried some more. Not much of an edgelord, I guess.
But she was definitely also kind of a sociopath. And I don’t blame her — you’d be a sociopath too, raised in the environment she was. Hell, it may even be why I liked her. Not many people “get” what it’s like to be raised plumb loco — you’re all lucky some of us end up even half-nice, most people raised like that end up cornered in a sniper tower picking off strangers with a rifle they’ve named after their imaginary childhood pet.
So I’m not 100% convinced this isn’t all some elaborate ruse.
Maybe she wanted to leave her online persona behind. Maybe, less recognizable after pregnancy’s weight gain, she wanted to retreat to a life of lululemon in the exurbs: wearing trainers to hot yoga, taking the Subaru to Trader Joe’s, drinking Chianti from a box with the other moms, the corners of her mouth and eyes creasing not from wrinkles but from smile lines, her apple-cheeked baby balanced on one knee. Maybe she wanted to burn it all down, and this is the only way she knew how.
Or maybe there never was a Dez — have you thought about that? Do you really think someone so ubiquitous would be so incautious as to give away their real identity? Have you ever seen her birth certificate? For that matter, are you sure you’ve ever really seen your own? Doesn’t it strike you as strange, your focus drawn to … an apparition on a computer? Isn’t there a dream you only now half-remember, and Dez was in it? “Simulation’s over,” she purrs, “time to unplug…”
Maybe Dez isn’t really dead. Maybe there never was a Dez. Maybe the Internet needed a Dez so much it decided to invent her. Maybe Dez has always been here, maybe Dez was never born, so maybe Dez can never die. Until there’s a death notice or an obituary, we don’t really know anything … and even then, we’ll never really know for sure…
Dez is dead! Long live Dez!
She’s dead. Type Desire Cholewa into FB. Gave birth a year ago, married 6 months ago, now dead.
HEY TARDBALLS! GUESS WHO ELSE DOES PORN?
AMOR HILTON!
I DON’R KNOW WHO THE FUCK THIS STICKAM WHORE IS BECAUSE I’M NOT FUCKING 12
She looks like any other whore on the internet to me.
WAIT WAIT WAIT. So this is the bitch who drank her own PISS?
And people compare Amor to her?? WTF is wrong with the world.
You post this, but Amor’s links are censored because they have nothing to do with social networking?! XDDD FAAAAIL
huge double standard
plus nobody gives a shit about this fuck.
“Wtf is wrong with you people? How can you “heart” some dumb bimbo who’s obviously nutty as fuck and desperate for attention?”
Cuz some of actually talk to Dez even when she’s clothed and she rocks. :]
<3 dez. and porn stars emerged from being VERY sexually active in High School to doing porn long before Stickam was around. Some girls(and guys) are just natural at it.
And poster above, Stickam was farrrrrr from the inventor of girls getting naked on webcam for 100's-1000's of viewers.
Re: the whole conspiracy that stickam was birthed to hook young people to live webcast porn.
False.
1. If anything, it went directly against their interest showing the ease of free-for-all FREE webcam sex vs paying some professional cam whore. Now who the fuck would even think about paying for some crappy dti service?
2. Throughout all of history – when an invention comes along, there are usually globally between at least 3-5 others working on the relatively same invention verging on success. Stickam was simply the first on the scene. It would have just as soon thereafter been justin.tv, blogtv, ustream, qik. etc etc etc. In other words, perhaps they saw a related niche to fill, and did just that.
Could she be any more stereotypical? Insecure and a nymphomaniac. Boring. She needs to put herself out of her misery.
lol Dez is a whore
crig! 🙂
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